成熟從不抱怨開(kāi)始英語(yǔ)勵(lì)志小故事
No Complaint, No Maturation
In a restaurant, I met him.
He was grumbling continuously ever since he sat down, complaining hiscompany for little salary after eternally hard working; the unjust of his linemanager who merely promote the one ingratiate him with he; the unkind ofcolleagues for ganging up with and beating someone while
pretending to be wellwith Finally, I caught the moment he stopped and enquired him cautiously: sinceyou are so unhappy with your work, why not changing ? he stupefied with aglance to me seemingly an alien “跳槽?Where should I go? You know that the economy isin the boom.” I have got it. Actually, his job was not so terrible.
After the dinner, he said good-bye to me heartily and left me
histelephone specially. However, I have never connected him ever. For me, it isout of consideration to make a friend with 一個(gè)怒氣沖天的人.
It reminds me 阿瑟·阿什, a well-know tennisplayer in America. He happened to catch the AIDS when he got a bloodtransfusion. A pile of his fans showed their sympathy and blamed the unjustGod. While 阿瑟·阿什 declared: “I get adeadly cancer, but a would not complain the God and myself because I know thatsomething we can not run away. I have no choice but to face when the daycomes.”
Genius! In his words, there is calmness, magnanimous, open-minded, aswell as the demeanors of a mature man. Unfortunately, we complaint everythingwhen we have to face the difficulty and setbacks in reality:
we alwayscomplaining that the God is unfair; the crucial fate, the grim human beingsItis worth doing if his dissatisfaction go away, depression disappear, feelingsbecome motivational after complaint. But, the problem is, as a mass of shabbyand cool fog, the complaint is so misleading that confuses his mind and thendrops him deeper and deeper in the muddy.
Life is like a journey, from ignorant to mature. And I believe thattruly mature is start from no complaint.
翻譯:成熟,從不抱怨開(kāi)始
遇見(jiàn)他,是在一個(gè)飯局上。
一落座,他就喋喋不休地抱怨起來(lái):怨公司不好,拼死拼活一個(gè)月,拿到手里的工資沒(méi)多少;怨上司不公,誰(shuí)擅長(zhǎng)拍馬就重用誰(shuí);怨同事不善,成天勾心斗角明爭(zhēng)暗奪終于,在他暫停抱怨的間隙,我小心翼翼地問(wèn)了一句:既然工作如此不稱(chēng)心,為什么不跳槽呢?他一愣,奇怪地看了我一眼,似乎在看一個(gè)外星人。 “跳槽?現(xiàn)在經(jīng)濟(jì)這么不景氣,往哪里跳?”一這下我算明白了,原來(lái)他的工作并非一無(wú)是處啊。
散席后。盡管他熱情地與我道別,并且特意留下他的.電話,但我,卻再未聯(lián)系過(guò)他。對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō),一個(gè)怨氣沖天的人,是不值得交往的。
不由得想起阿瑟·阿什。這位美國(guó)著名的網(wǎng)球名將,在一次輸血時(shí)感染了艾滋病。對(duì)于他的遭遇,許多球迷深表同情,且因此責(zé)怪老天對(duì)他太不公平。對(duì)此,阿瑟·阿什說(shuō)道:“知今,我身患絕癥,我不怨天,也不怪自己;因?yàn)槲抑烙行┦氯藷o(wú)法左右,當(dāng)不幸來(lái)臨時(shí),我們只能面對(duì)!
說(shuō)得多么好!在這段話里,我們看到了從容,看到了平靜,看到了坦蕩,看到了豁達(dá),看到了一位成熟男人的風(fēng)范。然而遺憾的是,在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中,面對(duì)困難和挫折,我們聽(tīng)得最多的,還是抱怨:怨蒼天不公,怨命運(yùn)殘酷,怨人情冷酷如果說(shuō)一個(gè)人抱怨之后,他的不滿與郁悶?zāi)軌螂S風(fēng)而去,心境能夠變得開(kāi)朗起來(lái),那他的抱怨還算是有價(jià)值的?蓡(wèn)題在于,抱怨恰如一股陰冷潮濕的黑霧,足以遮蔽他的眼光迷惑他的心智,最終讓佑在自怨自艾的泥潭里越陷越深。
人生就是一段旅程,是一段從青澀走向成熟的旅程。而我相信,真正的成熟,是從不抱怨開(kāi)始的。
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